Yesterday, I had a great experience! I went and visited my two year old friend, Sarah Giles, and her mom, Christine, and her new little sister, Caroline. Sarah was in my nursery class just over a year ago until the Eagle Springs Ward was split...
Sarah recently was diagnosed with anaplastic astrocytoma... and her tumor is located in the thalamus region of her brain making removal not really an option. Her wonderful parents have had to make major decisions about her treatment.... and I've thought about them quite a bit lately. Listening to General Conference really helped me and I'm sure that it helped the Giles family. Knowing about eternal families and the sealing ordinances of the temple give us hope, but loss of a loved one - no matter how strong our testimony of those great doctrines is - is difficult. So, that's where I think faith has to help us go forward, and remind us, that in the eternal perspective of things, Sarah will not be lost, she will always be with us - just not here on earth... and that's what's tough (luckily, right now, my own tears don't hit the screen like they would welt up on a piece of paper).
Sarah is now talking - something she wasn't doing a year ago and even despite the effects of steroids, she is still a very pleasant and loving little girl. We talked about Sammy the frog and nursery maracas and pancakes and I even found out who she wants to be for Halloween - Dora! She's definitely got the hair to be Dora. It was nice to see that after a few minutes she did remember me and I even got several laughs out of her. She told me I could come back and see her... so I will.
Little Caroline looks just like Brian (her dad) and sleeps peacefully. What a life she's had - since she was born just before Hurricane Ike hit.
I give kudos to
Christine - she is patient (whether she thinks she is or not), she is loving (to let folks like me come and visit) and she is a great example to me. I'm glad she's my friend.